The Great Outdoors
May. 7th, 2004 01:59 pmLike I said before I ever went on vacation, I have got to remember to take Justin outside. It wasn't easy to do that for the first few days, since Daniel was fresh out of the hospital so we had to take it easy. But today we spent the entire morning outside - bicycling to the grocery store and back, walking through the forest, picnic at the playground, then hiking up the mesa. And it was lovely - cold and windy, but lovely. The boys both interested and having fun, fresh air and sunshine and exercise... I have got to do this more often. We've had no blow-ups or meltdowns, not counting Justin's many yowls of frustration with biking.
Although re the biking... you know how "determined" and "stubborn" are supposedly the same thing, just different ways of putting it? Justin is both determined and stubborn. I wanted to club him over the head quite a few times this morning as he got more and more frustrated with biking. He's still not totally adept at keeping his feet going forward, and his two-wheeler has foot brakes, so he kept stopping himself without meaning to and then having a hell of a time trying to get himself going. Then he'd scream and cry and hit his bike, and I would tell him to take a little break and don't worry, I'd walk the bike... and my little mule of a son would absolutely not go for that. At all. Refused to give up, refused any help, and drove me nuts with a mix of annoyance and admiration.
And he's like this with so many things. It's quite a sight to see such a little person so damned determined to do things All By Himself.
( daily checklist )
Although re the biking... you know how "determined" and "stubborn" are supposedly the same thing, just different ways of putting it? Justin is both determined and stubborn. I wanted to club him over the head quite a few times this morning as he got more and more frustrated with biking. He's still not totally adept at keeping his feet going forward, and his two-wheeler has foot brakes, so he kept stopping himself without meaning to and then having a hell of a time trying to get himself going. Then he'd scream and cry and hit his bike, and I would tell him to take a little break and don't worry, I'd walk the bike... and my little mule of a son would absolutely not go for that. At all. Refused to give up, refused any help, and drove me nuts with a mix of annoyance and admiration.
And he's like this with so many things. It's quite a sight to see such a little person so damned determined to do things All By Himself.
( daily checklist )